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When you lose do you learn something from this defeat?

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Rereading many of the old posts and some new I realized a few things about the defeat.

I don't like to lose, and rarely will you find someone who likes to lose in anything in your life. We were born with an instinct and were being shaped and transformed to want to win something, to win to get along in the end. No matter if it is 1-0, the important thing is to win in any game or occasion of life for many, and for others maybe the factor is participation or fun.

I think the important thing is to be happy with what you are doing, that is, if you are happy to play even if you win or lose then that is good for you. Fun is something we have to have in life. I just have fun with victory, defeat teaches me that I should not be so greedy and should have more control of my actions and respect my own gambler rules.

Did you learn anything from your defeats in gambler's life? Do you think losing you learn not to make the same mistakes anymore? When you lose do you learn something from this defeat? Do you analyze your defeat or why you lost and try not to make the same mistake anymore?

Let me know what you do, share your ideas and experiences. Enjoy! Cheers!

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of course, every defeat and mistakes that I do, it becomes a lesson so that I will be better in the future, I will analyze where the mistakes that made me lose, so that I do not repeat them again, including about greed, I will try to control myself so that I am not greedy again

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I believe we have all made mistakes and experienced many defeats, especially when it comes to gambling.  Over the last few years I have definitely been able to take something from my defeats and try to apply what I have learned to future sessions and try to tweak my game accordingly.  In the past my biggest defeats usually resulted from greed, and I have definitely learned for that and tried to completely eliminate greed from my game.  It does not work 100% of the time, but I am much better at not letting greed get the best of me these days.

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Of course, losing teaches us players not to make such mistakes in the future. After all, people do not want to listen to those with whom this has already happened and think that this will not happen to them. Therefore, we all learn only from our mistakes.

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Yes of course every defeat give a lesson to do batter next time and mark our mistake and next time not do these mistakes if you learn to something your defeat then so must success next time if you not learn and not mark your your mistakes then you not do batter in your life

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yes of course. from my losses i have learned that i shouldnt be greedy, and always use your feelings when you put a bet. sometimes heart tell to stop but our mind wont stop. that is why the losses is come through us

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5 hours ago, sheenaz.bay said:

of course, every defeat and mistakes that I do, it becomes a lesson so that I will be better in the future, I will analyze where the mistakes that made me lose, so that I do not repeat them again, including about greed, I will try to control myself so that I am not greedy again

I believe this is the way, but things don't always go the way we want. I am trying to recover my doges and it seems that this is being very difficult for me these last month.

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It depends the loss, sometimes you did everything properly but you still lose because the casino is taking his part and using their advantage over you.

The best is to learn how to judge if it was a loss because of your own mistake or one that you could not avoid.

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Gambling is a very deceitful game. For the past 2 weeks now, I have been making the same mistake repeatedly, and it has been so painful. I really wish I can stop making those mistakes, but it is just impossible for me just because of greed. 

But I always learn my lessons, but most times, I don't take corrections to my lessons.And I have learnt one thing for sure. Which is I should never stay on a defeat for so long, when I make a mistake and I bust definitely, I just immediately move on. It doesn't take me a minute again, no matter the amount. Before, I am always very very pained, but now, I just don't care again.

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I guess not. Many times I promised myself that I will try to control my emotions every time I lose but it seems that I never can do this. not only alone but also many others will never be able to learn anything from failure in gambling
 

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23 hours ago, maluss said:

It depends the loss, sometimes you did everything properly but you still lose because the casino is taking his part and using their advantage over you.

The best is to learn how to judge if it was a loss because of your own mistake or one that you could not avoid.

This is definitely a big part of it in my thoughts as well.  We have to learn to limit our stupid mistakes and also be able to determine if it was our fault we lost for being stupid, or if we maybe played correctly and just got unlucky.  If we can eliminate the former and just try to play as smart as we can, it can surely minimize losses and create some nice wins, but the house edge will always get us in the end if we don't take advantage of the wins and cash out when we can.

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On 05/08/2019 at 23:07, JohnTravel said:

I think the important thing is to be happy with what you are doing, that is, if you are happy to play even if you win or lose then that is good for you. Fun is something we have to have in life. I just have fun with victory, defeat teaches me that I should not be so greedy and should have more control of my actions and respect my own gambler rules.

I believe this is the essence of all the lessons we do in gambling, two inseparable things are losing and winning. We don't know when to win and when to lose, only from every win we feel happy and vice versa, every time I get a victory I stop and enjoy it no longer try to play to get the same luck.

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yeah .. I always try to correct my mistakes in betting .. relearn where lies where I did it ..

more thoroughly after knowing the mistakes I made and trying as much as possible in playing gambling, especially in gambling crytocurrency ..

but, .. no matter how careful I am in correcting the mistakes I have made, I still lose the bet ... no matter how hard I try, it's still the defeat that comes my way ... I get a little confused ...

after days of trying to take back my defeat, finally I managed to do it in just minutes ... here I understand ... in gambling, not only the skills, targets and strategies needed ... but luck must also be considered. .

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i learned many things in this journey, especially from defead, i learned from primedice that in gambling, no strategy works for the long run, and everything will end up by loss, no matter what you play and when. it comes that day when you feel lucky and undefeatable, but you will lose if you didnt take the right moves ( change strats, withdraw..etc ) . one of the most things i learned from defeat is that i should change the way of betting once i feel danger, i change also the bet amount.. and i learned to wait the right time to place some hight bets since its a game of patience after all .

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2 hours ago, Chikou1306 said:

i learned many things in this journey, especially from defead, i learned from primedice that in gambling, no strategy works for the long run, and everything will end up by loss, no matter what you play and when. it comes that day when you feel lucky and undefeatable, but you will lose if you didnt take the right moves ( change strats, withdraw..etc ) . one of the most things i learned from defeat is that i should change the way of betting once i feel danger, i change also the bet amount.. and i learned to wait the right time to place some hight bets since its a game of patience after all .

what you say is true .. only if there is patience and luck, then victory will approach us ..
if you feel there is danger / defeat, if in my opinion, it's better to stop betting than having to change the game strategy. because, if the danger signal has appeared, with whatever strategy you play, all that remains is remorse for losing the bet ... destroying the victory that was won a second before the coming of the destruction ...

then ... if you have won the bet and feel there is a little danger if you still bet, then you should do the withdrawal .. because it's better than hoping for a bigger win that is uncertain to get

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20 hours ago, Noeprellik1 said:

when I experience some losses, I will try to hold my self from doing all in or rage bet. At first it was difficult, but more and more I was able to exercise self-control

This is something I used to struggle with as well, that after a few big losses I would often rage bet to try to recover.  It rarely works out, usually leading to even bigger losses.  If we do not learn from our bad play and change our habits then we are doing it wrong.

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i never learning when i loss again i loss and i can won some time , this greedy mind gambling u never stop if u won hug amount , i see alot of ppl wining hug and no stop end of bust , no learn :S

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I wouldn't say I haven't learned that much in regards to strategy when playing dice, it's so unpredictable so each game you play will be unique.

I would like to say that when I get defeated in the game, I try to learn to not get too greedy but always struggle to not go big at some point when playing. I've always said that you need to risk it if you want to win big.

The only thing that I would say I've definitely learned is to never go in and wager more than you can afford to lose and to try and withdraw when ever you are in profit.

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Yes I have, I have gained some experience after every losing game is that I never bet all in one game when I am losing. It is also useful advice that I want to send to all members
 

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On 05/08/2019 at 18:48, maluss said:

It depends the loss, sometimes you did everything properly but you still lose because the casino is taking his part and using their advantage over you.

The best is to learn how to judge if it was a loss because of your own mistake or one that you could not avoid.

What we can do is set a percentage to risk and if we lose it we know it won't affect us, I talk about it as calculated play.

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21 hours ago, JohnTravel said:

What we can do is set a percentage to risk and if we lose it we know it won't affect us, I talk about it as calculated play.

This is the best way to go.  I think having a plan going in and also having a goal is crucial to being a winning player.

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On 09/08/2019 at 17:27, williamsh said:

Defeat is an opportunity to learn about your mistakes. If you learn about them, and apply your mind and correct the mistake going forward, then you will be a stronger person.

Losing is really very hard, but I have learned to accept my losses, I know no one wins forever, what I hope with that is really not making the mistake that led me to lose anymore.

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