Attitude Towards Others - Is This Important?

[dmbadillo10 840]

Heya guys,

How's everyone? Hope you guys are having a great time!

Just wanted to spill out some thoughts, and of course ask yours as well. This is going to be about a person's attitude towards other people that he or she interacts with.

We are all communicating through internet, and this generation is well knowledgable on how internet works. We meet and greet with people that we only see in pictures. Sometimes, not their real pictures at all. (Lol.) We start to know the person, under a user name, uniquely created to show identity. Meaning to say, we speak and interact with people that we don't really know.

This kinda normal nowadays, again, because we now live on the world of internet. Our webiste, which we play on, is consist of people worldwide, on different languages so to speak. We make friends, talk and goof around on the chat room. There will be times that you will notice some ruckus going on on the chat room, between 2 players, or sometimes even more. Even worst, in groups. Sometimes, a player picks on another player, and the pandemonium starts ending with chaos on the room.

Even so, that we don't see or know the person or the player personally, I believe that attitude towards a fellow player is an essential to maintain good relationship with others on to keep the gameplay healthy.

Let me list down some of the things that I believe that would be the Pros and Cons of having a good and bad attitude towards a person on a gambling site, or most likely, on any other sites that has a communication channel:

Showing a good attitude:

• It will establish good relationship with others.
• It will create a healthy environment all around the site.
• You'll have good friends to talk with on your rest time.
• Conversations on chat would be more fun.
• There will be less chance of you, getting banned or muted.
• You'll have a clean reputation as a player on the said site.

Showing a bad attitude:

• Less people to talk with you.
• Your reputation is tarnished due to the bad mouthing.
• You'll just be stressed out, as no one wants to talk with and no one likes you.
• You'll create a bad influence to others, most likely new comers and will replicate your bad attitude.
• Will lead you to eventually, leaving the site, getting muted, worst, getting banned for bad words and arguing with others.

These are just the things that passed through my mind. You can leave a comment if have any other things to add.

At the end of the day, ATTITUDE matters. In the office, in the school, at the resto, on any other place.. Even on an online gambling site too.

 

[Earthman 11]

And what does it have in common with cryptocoin casino?

[dmbadillo10 840]

9 minutes ago, Earthman said:

And what does it have in common with cryptocoin casino?

I'm sorry bro. I'm confused with your question, thus I cannot answer. The part where you asked: " What does it have in common..". I don't get what you mean by that.

Can you restate or reconstruct your question? I'll be more than happy to answer that.

[MrNice23 446]

Interesting topic , what is a good or bad attitude for you, as we know that all's relative.

[dmbadillo10 840]

34 minutes ago, MrNice23 said:

Interesting topic , what is a good or bad attitude for you, as we know that all's relative.

Well, lemme just give a scenario or an example:

If one of the player in chat argues with you and is bad mouthing you already, that's showing a bad attitude towards a co-player.

If someone talks to you calmly, with reasonable responses in any types of topics being talked about on chat, that's one example of a good attitude.

Another example, if lost some coins and then you're cussing over chat, that's a bad attitude. Staying in tact and just chilling out on chat, would be the counterpart of that.

Those are just some samples. Hope I answered your question.

 

[MrNice23 446]

Yeah thanks , that's a good example of good attitude , and most of us think same i hope, but we can understand  that these kind of regrettable attitudes can often occur in a very active chat like Primedice has.

[dmbadillo10 840]

2 minutes ago, MrNice23 said:

Yeah thanks , that's a good example of good attitude , and most of us think same i hope, but we can understand  that these kind of regrettable attitudes can often occur in a very active chat like Primedice has.

Yea. Agreed. We cannot really stop the bad attitude 100%, since everyone is just a human being too, getting pissed or having a bad day or so.

But this can be minimized by letting people know that attitude matters wherever you interact, internet-based or in person.

 

[UltraChief 1,489]

7 hours ago, dmbadillo10 said:

Meaning to say, we speak and interact with people that we don't really know.

Thats true for every internet chat or forum.

7 hours ago, dmbadillo10 said:

Sometimes, a player picks on another player, and the pandemonium starts ending with chaos on the room.

Such things happen in chat often but the best way to prevent them is to just ignore the person who is picking on you. They will get the hint that you dont care about their words and stop annoying you.

But then we have the "Ignore" button as well  

[AlphaStorm 200]

This is an interesting topic. Chatting relationships have always been strange to me. I'll tell the story.
When I came to PD, chaos was happening in Russian chat, a lot of insults, many beggars, a lot of robberies. I was disappointed and even wanted to leave. But I came with a few friends and we started chatting with each other. Gradually, people came to communicate with us and the chat became more pleasant, curses became less. Yes, they didn’t stop fighting completely, but it became much better. I think the whole thing is a good example. Just do not fall for provocations, do not be fooled, and you will see the result.

[Bojana 1,672]

As always, I like your topic, @dmbadillo10, this is something that definitely needs to be discussed further, since lately we have noticed that some users are on chat for one purpose only - to spew venom on others due to their own personal frustrations. Maybe this was always the case, people don't like to lose, and that creates a huge feeling of discomfort in many. Our task, as support and mods, is to defuse the situation at hand, which is not always the easiest of the tasks, maybe even the hardest one so far. 

One thing is for sure, and I agree 100% with you there - no one wants to talk to a user who insults and attacks everyone else, and who thinks is better than the rest. 

We understand the situation on chat is not always the greatest, there are many passive beggars, people who are there only for rains, but there are also regulars and people with whom you can have a normal conversation if you only want to  Focus on those!

My suggestion, and perhaps the most painless solution - live and let others live... If someone is cluttering the chat with spam, put it under the /ignore command (it is placed there for a reason), or report to us, friendly warn 1st, many options. If someone is PMing you, asking for funds and disturbing you in general, a screenshot will do for us to check that person's activity and help you get rid of the pest. 

Bear in mind also, that support's main job is to tend the tickets and help users with their accounts, not supervise the chat, so we are a few clicks away when you need us. Mods are there, sometimes online, and sometimes lurking, so feel free to contact them as well, we will all try to help you of you feel uncomfortable with chat situation. 

Live and let others live... (once again!) 😎

[UltraChief 1,489]

5 minutes ago, AlphaStorm said:

people came to communicate with us and the chat became more pleasant, curses became less.

Some troublemakers are always there. Its best to just ignore them and stop responding to them. Point is these people are seeking attention and if you dont respond to a person who is being rude to be an attention-seeker then they will get irritated and leave by themselves.

The internet is filled with trolls, attention seekers and scammers. Best to not take every word seriously.

[AlphaStorm 200]

Just now, UltraChief said:

Some troublemakers are always there. Its best to just ignore them and stop responding to them. Point is these people are seeking attention and if you dont respond to a person who is being rude to be an attention-seeker then they will get irritated and leave by themselves.

The internet is filled with trolls, attention seekers and scammers. Best to not take every word seriously.

If I played alone, I probably just closed the chat. But people play to whom I am good or friendly. And if the troll will attack them, I will rise to the defense. If possible culturally)) If this does not help, I will contact support (if there is no moderator).

[UltraChief 1,489]

2 minutes ago, AlphaStorm said:

And if the troll will attack them, I will rise to the defense. If possible culturally))

Thats what I am trying to highlight. Do not try to engage in a keyboard war with them. They are seeking attention and they want you do so. You are just playing into their plans.

If you ignore them all then such incidents wont happen. Try to spread such an attitude in chat and make others aware of this method. Its the best one till date.

[AlphaStorm 200]

Just now, UltraChief said:

Thats what I am trying to highlight. Do not try to engage in a keyboard war with them. They are seeking attention and they want you do so. You are just playing into their plans.

If you ignore them all then such incidents wont happen. Try to spread such an attitude in chat and make others aware of this method. Its the best one till date.

I agree this is a good way out. But not for me. It's like being put up when stones are thrown at you. I can not tolerate this, and always protect those who can not protect themselves, it happens. But I try to be as cultural as possible)) It’s good that such cases have become very few. ) And I'm glad of it.

[dmbadillo10 840]

16 hours ago, AlphaStorm said:

This is an interesting topic. Chatting relationships have always been strange to me. I'll tell the story.
When I came to PD, chaos was happening in Russian chat, a lot of insults, many beggars, a lot of robberies. I was disappointed and even wanted to leave. But I came with a few friends and we started chatting with each other. Gradually, people came to communicate with us and the chat became more pleasant, curses became less. Yes, they didn’t stop fighting completely, but it became much better. I think the whole thing is a good example. Just do not fall for provocations, do not be fooled, and you will see the result.

I agree. Chatrooms, on any sites will always have trolls. But when you start making friends, and see you guys having fun in chat, you and your friends might not stop the chaos, but might influence them to join the fray and have fun too. 😉

16 hours ago, Bojana said:

As always, I like your topic, @dmbadillo10, this is something that definitely needs to be discussed further, since lately we have noticed that some users are on chat for one purpose only - to spew venom on others due to their own personal frustrations. Maybe this was always the case, people don't like to lose, and that creates a huge feeling of discomfort in many. Our task, as support and mods, is to defuse the situation at hand, which is not always the easiest of the tasks, maybe even the hardest one so far. 

One thing is for sure, and I agree 100% with you there - no one wants to talk to a user who insults and attacks everyone else, and who thinks is better than the rest. 

We understand the situation on chat is not always the greatest, there are many passive beggars, people who are there only for rains, but there are also regulars and people with whom you can have a normal conversation if you only want to  Focus on those!

My suggestion, and perhaps the most painless solution - live and let others live... If someone is cluttering the chat with spam, put it under the /ignore command (it is placed there for a reason), or report to us, friendly warn 1st, many options. If someone is PMing you, asking for funds and disturbing you in general, a screenshot will do for us to check that person's activity and help you get rid of the pest. 

Bear in mind also, that support's main job is to tend the tickets and help users with their accounts, not supervise the chat, so we are a few clicks away when you need us. Mods are there, sometimes online, and sometimes lurking, so feel free to contact them as well, we will all try to help you of you feel uncomfortable with chat situation. 

Live and let others live... (once again!) 😎

Thanks for always appreciating my content @Bojana! 😊

Maybe in simple words, that's it. "Live and let others live.". Just let the trolls and evil be. At some point, I miss the old chat.. I mean, when I was just a noob around. The fun was very often. Even the trolls are being a source of humor. Now, poison peeps infected the town.

But hey, we do bear with you guys. We know you guys have a lot to carry on a daily basis. Managing and looking after a website is not a piece of cake. 😉

That's why like what you mentioned, we have the Moderators around to "moderate" things up. 🤘🏽

 

16 hours ago, UltraChief said:

Such things happen in chat often but the best way to prevent them is to just ignore the person who is picking on you. They will get the hint that you dont care about their words and stop annoying you.

But then we have the "Ignore" button as well  

Agreed. Had some people on my list before.

Just don't mind the trolls and just talk to the people that are worth the talk.

[CaptainLorca 903]

So I skippeeeeeed over the most parts of here. Its late.. I'm tired. And Lazy. And this is a adorable doggo:

https://www.quora.com/Why-is-the-Shiba-Inu-breed-too-cute <- Didn't post a picture, because bigger distraction in that case.

Anyway.. my blabla on topic:

The most important rule of it all is the following one: Don't be a dick! Be nice as you would be to your parents that love you. There will always be someone who just wants to see the whole world burn (I AM BATMAN). There are always people with a god complex or thinkin they're better than you. Some are racist, some are chauvinistic.. but don't you go bad?! Stay nice and calm.

There is no need to engage a fight or anything. People want that and they love to trigger you. Even different opinions can lead to.. hot topics and brutal discussions on Chats / Forums / Trainstations. But that where the child is buried (German saying). People are different - they have different opinions and different behavior. If everyone would just watch their own steps a little, I bet it could be better. But some just can't resist the urge to shit around every time. You have them in real life as well.. and you know that they don't have much people to really talk to.

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeell summed up:

Don't be a dick and imagine you were in a small room where everyone got a knife. You don't wanna be the one getting stabbed, because you stabbed someone or just being the victim gettin stabbed.

Here a nice gif of politicians in a fist fight:

[dmbadillo10 840]

2 hours ago, CaptainLorca said:

So I skippeeeeeed over the most parts of here. Its late.. I'm tired. And Lazy. And this is a adorable doggo:

https://www.quora.com/Why-is-the-Shiba-Inu-breed-too-cute <- Didn't post a picture, because bigger distraction in that case.

Anyway.. my blabla on topic:

The most important rule of it all is the following one: Don't be a dick! Be nice as you would be to your parents that love you. There will always be someone who just wants to see the whole world burn (I AM BATMAN). There are always people with a god complex or thinkin they're better than you. Some are racist, some are chauvinistic.. but don't you go bad?! Stay nice and calm.

There is no need to engage a fight or anything. People want that and they love to trigger you. Even different opinions can lead to.. hot topics and brutal discussions on Chats / Forums / Trainstations. But that where the child is buried (German saying). People are different - they have different opinions and different behavior. If everyone would just watch their own steps a little, I bet it could be better. But some just can't resist the urge to shit around every time. You have them in real life as well.. and you know that they don't have much people to really talk to.

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeell summed up:

Don't be a dick and imagine you were in a small room where everyone got a knife. You don't wanna be the one getting stabbed, because you stabbed someone or just being the victim gettin stabbed.

Here a nice gif of politicians in a fist fight:

Yup. That's one more phrase for it: "Dont be a dick."

Instead of having fired up or brutal discussions on chat, let's make it happy and healthy, like it was before. You're one of the people I saw on chat when I was noob, and somehow, someway, you were able to talk, discuss and have some fun on chat with me. So you know what I mean when I say "just like before.".

 

[ravenyvolle 583]

It is important, as months here in pd, you will get to see those who sucks behind you etc and who are real:D but nothing serious taken, as evrything is just online. They dont know a sh** about you in real life anyway

[dmbadillo10 840]

1 minute ago, ravenyvolle said:

It is important, as months here in pd, you will get to see those who sucks behind you etc and who are real:D but nothing serious taken, as evrything is just online. They dont know a sh** about you in real life anyway

Yea. I agree. It just sucks when people talksh*t behind the keyboard and continues to be an a**hole in the chatroom. It brings so much negativity that it will make a person go down to the same level and start chaos all around the place.

[ravenyvolle 583]

1 minute ago, dmbadillo10 said:

Yea. I agree. It just sucks when people talksh*t behind the keyboard and continues to be an a**hole in the chatroom. It brings so much negativity that it will make a person go down to the same level and start chaos all around the place.

Exactly! Like say it to our faces haha it shows how coward they are , keyboard warriors lol, but oh well, its their choice and we will not get into their levels:P we are way much better than them.

[Kate 281]

Also you will be targeted to be removed from the site by others

Maybe add that xD. 

[dmbadillo10 840]

6 hours ago, ravenyvolle said:

Exactly! Like say it to our faces haha it shows how coward they are , keyboard warriors lol, but oh well, its their choice and we will not get into their levels:P we are way much better than them.

That's the mindset dear. 😉

But yea. We gonna keep this area less negative. Hope the trolls passed through this topic as of now. 😛

[Dengars 4]

Sometimes people just feel their impunity and permissiveness. Nobody sees him or knows him. He can say anything, and he won't do anything for it. Here are the negativity in the chat.

[jessicadiaz 9]

Having a good discussion with other people is good, but i hope if a person only give negative info always , he stops on talking.

[Quel 3]

Yes I think it’s very important the attitude towards others but sometimes I get irritated with the people who keeps on begging all the time. I’m not selfish but I do hate people begging all the time.