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When you are depressed ,the best thing to do is taking the situation you find yourself into as a normal case that can happen to a human being.Secondly try to create jocks and don't be isolated with your situation.In so doing,you may find an intersted topic in the misd of a discussion that will alleviate that anxiety and fear in you.

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When I get depression, I will go to the gym , lift hard smash those iron, yelling while lifting sometimes help you release the stress (as long you didn't disturb the other member 😄). After that going home, take a bath with warm water, eat healty food and go sleep earlier.

Tommorow I will wake up with full energy and good mood

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Yoga works for me ..... Esp the breathing exercises ..... 
Of course I am on Welbutrin 150 mg too ...... But i think medication is only a placebo for me ... 

Sleep is very much underrated too ... though what you do before you go to sleep is a major factor which nobody talks about ..... if you go to sleep thinking and being all sad then i guess the sadness pours itself in the sleep subconscious too . I have terrible sleep if i watch something bad or keep reminiscing about bad stuff before going to bed .... 

Watching real comedy and happy stuff works like a charm before going to bed for me ....   I liked the Comic spell in harry potter where one completely transforms a negetive emotion into something which is real ass funny. One ought to learn to identify and do that in real life too .... 

And Most important of all FRIENDS .... 

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Hi,

I have to say that  I don't agree with 50% of those answers. especially those about a routine. 
Did you even realize that an depression is an disorder and that most people think that they are depressive while they're just having a hard time.
Sound hard maybe. But I get annoyed by those useless steps and useless routines. 
I've been suffering from Borderline since I was around twelve and grew up with extreme anxiety for social activities etc. And that is way different than having a bad period. Believe me there are differences. Also if a certain person is depressed never force them or stay suggesting them to do something. Because this will effect his/her on a negative way. 
I'm eighteen years old and started anti depressants. I had to build up doses and this was one of the most difficult times of my life. I felt so sick and weird. And not myself and eventually almost did suicide. When I recovered from the "Getting used to .. " period I've been feeling amazing. Not that it fixes my depression completely because sometimes it still is there. But it just takes away the sharp edges. Same for my anxiety. But indeed like @Edward don't go on anti depressants when your under eighteen and stay off them as long as possible. Only if it's extreme and they did research on you then it may be an option. But it's not magic. It wont just suddenly make you happy or something and it's really difficult to start with. It also affected my sex life a lot at the beginning. Now I'm kinda getting my libido back again since I take Wellbutrin next to my Sertralin (Zoloft) and it works fine. But please don't tell us that we have to exercise or something. I do exercise and I'm healthy in general. But It never fixed my depression. Please think about something before you post it. Because it's not easy to just do something. a Mental disorder is as deathly as cancer. It eats you till you die. Those anti depressants saved my life in this case. But I wont want to take them for my whole life.

KH

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23 hours ago, KoningHosselaar said:

Hi,

I have to say that  I don't agree with 50% of those answers. especially those about a routine. 
Did you even realize that an depression is an disorder and that most people think that they are depressive while they're just having a hard time.
Sound hard maybe. But I get annoyed by those useless steps and useless routines. 
I've been suffering from Borderline since I was around twelve and grew up with extreme anxiety for social activities etc. And that is way different than having a bad period. Believe me there are differences. Also if a certain person is depressed never force them or stay suggesting them to do something. Because this will effect his/her on a negative way. 
I'm eighteen years old and started anti depressants. I had to build up doses and this was one of the most difficult times of my life. I felt so sick and weird. And not myself and eventually almost did suicide. When I recovered from the "Getting used to .. " period I've been feeling amazing. Not that it fixes my depression completely because sometimes it still is there. But it just takes away the sharp edges. Same for my anxiety. But indeed like @Edward don't go on anti depressants when your under eighteen and stay off them as long as possible. Only if it's extreme and they did research on you then it may be an option. But it's not magic. It wont just suddenly make you happy or something and it's really difficult to start with. It also affected my sex life a lot at the beginning. Now I'm kinda getting my libido back again since I take Wellbutrin next to my Sertralin (Zoloft) and it works fine. But please don't tell us that we have to exercise or something. I do exercise and I'm healthy in general. But It never fixed my depression. Please think about something before you post it. Because it's not easy to just do something. a Mental disorder is as deathly as cancer. It eats you till you die. Those anti depressants saved my life in this case. But I wont want to take them for my whole life.

KH

I already upvoted, but just wanna say thanks for sharing your experience with the community, @KoningHosselaar, it must have not been easy to open up like that and give all the details, but hopefully, someone in need of help in this sense, will get to read this ;) 

Stay strong and good luck on your studies! 🍀

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On 31/05/2017 at 07:53, endorphin said:

These tips can help you feel better -- starting right now.

 

➡Get in a routine. If you're depressed, you need a routine, says Ian Cook, MD. ...

➡Set goals. When you're depressed, you may feel like you can't accomplish anything. ...

➡Exercise. ...

➡Eat healthy. ...

➡Get enough sleep.

 

always thinking positive and thinking ahead will also be better to make us better in step, and not too long to be sad in something missing :)

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You guys have no idea how Depression works. It’s not like you can just think positive. A Depression will most likely set you off World.

No Energy or will to do anything. Simpelst thing can be like a mountain. You cannot focus, you can’t really think straight forward.

Depression keeps you down on the ground. There is no Smile, talking, taking a shower and positive thinking. Being depressed that way means that all of this is nothing to accept.

saying „smile“ to someone who is depressed wont end good for you. Depressed people like to get distant to people who don’t know what’s going down and take a lot of stuff very personal and negative. People with Depression are very, very sensitive and complicated.

and on top.. they‘re good at lying. They have too. Depression is still a no-go topic and not really accept in the society. They all come around and say „whiney b!tch“ or „pull yourself together“. It isn’t easy as that.

all I can say is.. the ones suffering from it should seek professional help and learn to live with this disorder.

taking pills on the longterm is no solution, as @Edward pointed out earlier.

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When you are depressed, go to your son or daughter, hug him, hold to your heart. You will immediately feel that life is beautiful. Our kids!! That's for whom you need to live and forget to hell with some kind of depression))

If you have no children .... Look in the mirror and say: I am the smartest, I am the most beautiful, I am the strongest. I am not afraid of any trouble. I will cope with any problems !!!

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Depression symptoms tend to be more slowly detected. But actually many easy ways to overcome them. maybe with meditation, to get rid of the stress that appears everyday, set aside 30 minutes every day and find a quiet place. Turn off the device and close your eyes. Adjust breath, and focus. While vitamin B intake needs to be increased, caffeine needs to be reduced. This is because in some people, caffeine can trigger sleep problems and affect moods. I also suggested starting to make lifestyle changes. Sleep at the same time every night, and wake up at the same time. Talk to people you trust. This can benefit you in many ways. Expressing the contents of your mind and what is happening in life and getting a response can help you see things from a different perspective. opening up can be awkward at the beginning. But don't let that feeling overwhelm you. Open yourself to get input, suggestions, even help from others. the last is to exercise. Simple aerobics, morning walks or light stretches can help overcome symptoms of depression. Exercise triggers endorphin production, it also triggers the brain to think more positively.

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1 hour ago, CaptainLorca said:

These are steps you can do once you got out of the hole. A full blown depression makes you do nothing, no drive for anything. Even the easiest tasks can become impossible to you.

Usually most patients affected by severe depression will indeed be much more difficult to do treatment through drugs and also by using psychologist therapy.

So you can also use this one method by using electroconvulsive therapy, usually for this one treatment is done by using anesthetic effects, unfortunately many say that this method of therapy is not so good, but many have also proven it using methods this one therapy actually experienced a good increase in patients.

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On 6/3/2019 at 5:47 PM, policewale said:

 i am experiencing depression

Did you encounter difficulties at work, or did you break up with your lover? Don't think about negative things because it makes you worse. Depression is not scary, so please go out with friends. Everything will get better with you.

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Depression is a real thing, If you've got one you need help. Go and see your doctor. You go to the doctor if you've got flu why wouldn't go with depression

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Depression is a thing ive lived and learned with my entire life. I can remember being crippled by the idea that i wasnt able to happily bottle feed before i was old enough to see over the counter in the kitchen. And now as an adult ive realized that there is no escape from depression. Everyone entertains it during their life. And when not entertaining it we either ignore it consciously or drowned it with healthy/unhealthy ways. Drugs. Sex. Money. Fitness. Knowledge. Friends.  Food ect. I believe depression stems from one thing....modern life. If we still enjoyed survival being our only goal depression wouldn't be a part of thought process. Who has time to think about why they arent happy when you may not live beyond 28?

I have been depressed my entire life and no one would ever suspect it when around me. Ive been successful. Homeless. Addicted to heavy drugs. Enjoyed sobriety. Had awesome relationships with great women and been single for years straight.  All the while depressed as fuck. The best thing ive found to help is self reflection. You know when you do something and then wonder what the fuck you did it for? The thought can end there or be thought about until its understood. The better you understand yourself the better you handle and experience your life.

When life had procreation as its driving force and survival as its daily goal depression had no place our lives and happiness wasnt thought of. I really dont know what existence i prefer.

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Trying to stay healthy as best you can even when it becomes really hard to make the effort there's some good books these days about helping one self

is a very difficult thing to deal with, if you do not have family and friends on the side, the tendency of the person and only get worse, already coexist with depressive people.

Understand that music can strongly influence you too if everything your putting on is doom and gloom try changing shit up for a bit and seeing if it makes a difference this applies for movies and a bunch of other aspects of life too

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